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I don’t have much. I have a vivid imagination, but I can’t get my emotions to follow very well. When something bad or good happens to someone, I can imagine how I would react to the emotions I would be having but I just can’t seem to imagine the actual emotions.
When people used to tell me they were getting married or divorced, I knew how to react appropriately, but I couldn’t imagine how they were feeling. Then I got married, and the joy and pain of marriage became very personal. I could imagine how a coupe could get to the point of wanting a divorce (not that I’ve ever felt that way, darling). I could understand their pain, but I could also realized the great damage it would cause to get divorced.
Its been much the same with abortion. I knew that it was wrong; I could make the logical connections why it was life inside the womb, but I couldn’t begin to imagine what it felt like to be the protector of an unborn child. Then Judy got herself pregnant. Well, I may have helped… And now I would lay my life down to protect that tiny little life that so many say has none.
Every week I read about the new amazing things that are happening to my unborn child. Miraculous things like eyelids fingernails and hiccups. I even read that it actually looks like a human being now, just really, really, small.
So any of you who didn’t know, Judy and I are having a baby. Right now its 12 weeks and has a beautiful 160bpm heartbeat.
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YAY! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Comment by Allison Fowler July 23, 2008 @ 11:23 amCongrats to both of you (all 3 even
!
There are so many new feelings and changes that come with having a baby it’s impossible to describe. I’d say that until you become a parent you don’t really know what real life is like…
Enjoy the ride!
-thinker-
Comment by -thinker- July 25, 2008 @ 1:27 pmHi Jeremy!! I was googling old college friends and I found your website! Tell Judy I say hello and congratulations on the baby news!!
Comment by Renee August 13, 2008 @ 9:09 pm